Frequently Asked Questions

Is my child ready to learn chess?

This is one of the most common questions I hear from parents, and the answer depends on the individual child’s development. While some children grasp chess concepts as early as three or four, most are ready to understand all the rules by the time they are six.

If your child can recognize basic shapes, follow simple instructions, focus for 20 minutes on any activity and show interest in board games or problem-solving activities, they are likely ready to learn chess. For more information check out our (free webinar video comming soon).

Should I let my child win?

It’s okay to let them win occasionally to build confidence, but it’s also important to challenge them so they learn from their mistakes. Instead of outright winning or losing on purpose, consider guiding them through their moves, asking questions like, "Are there any pieces under attack?" or "What happens if you move there?" to encourage critical thinking.

A great practical way to balance challenge and encouragement is by playing a material odds game. This means you give your child an advantage by removing one or more of your own pieces at the start of the game. For example, you can play without a queen or a rook to make it easier for them to win while still requiring them to strategize.

How much time should I spend on a weekly basis teaching chess to my child?

For young beginners, 15-30 minutes per session, 2-3 times a week, is a good start. The key is keeping it fun and engaging rather than forcing long lessons. If they’re enjoying it and ask for more, you can extend the time, but always end on a positive note before they lose interest.

I myself don't know how to play chess, how can I help my child?

You can learn together! The average adult can learn all of the rules of chess within 30-45 minutes. Use beginner-friendly resources like interactive apps, online videos, or books like AlphaBetChess. Encourage your child’s progress by celebrating small achievements. Feel free to check out the answer to question on resources for more information.

What are the benefits of chess?

Chess improves critical thinking, problem-solving, memory, patience, and concentration. It also teaches sportsmanship and resilience while enhancing academic skills, especially in math and reading. For more information, check out our Benefits of Chess section.

Tournament Time: What Parents Need to Know

Helping Your Child Step Confidently Into the Chess Arena

When is my child ready to play in a chess tournament?

If your child understands the basic rules and can complete a full game without help, they’re ready to give a tournament a try! The goal isn’t to win right away—it’s to gain experience, build confidence, and have fun.

What should I expect at a chess tournament?

Chess tournaments are quiet, structured events. Players usually play several rounds over the course of a few hours, with short breaks in between. Kids play face-to-face using real boards and pieces—no screens! Parents often wait in a designated area during rounds.

How do tournament pairings work?

Most tournaments use a Swiss system, where players with similar scores face each other in each round. Everyone continues playing, even after losses—no eliminations!

What does “time control” mean in a chess tournament?

Time control refers to how long each player has to make their moves. Common examples include: G/30: Each player has 30 minutes for the whole game. G/5 + 5: Each player has 5 minutes, with 5 seconds added after each move. Shorter games = faster decisions and more pressure. Longer games = deeper thinking time.

What are chess ratings?

A chess rating is a number that reflects a player’s skill level. Beginners often start around 100–400 and go up as they win games. Ratings help create fair matchups and track progress over time.

How do I register my child for a tournament?

You can register online through the organizer’s website or platforms like uschess.org. Rated tournaments require a US Chess Federation (USCF) membership. If you're outside the U.S., check with your local or national chess federation for registration guidelines.